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Identity
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Why Most Wife are Crazy & Think Most Men are Stupid

by Dr. Joseph Kansema

Reclaiming identity at the intersection of African heritage and faith.

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ISBN: 978-0-620-72265-0120 pagesPublished 2026/10/02

About this book

Most men believe that a wife will appreciate a husband who works long hours to bring a good income home. But when work starts to affect the love relationship, women hardly value anything that comes between them and their husband. When I got married, I was very poor, so I resolved to work as hard as I could to change the situation. I became so focused on work that I had no time for anything apart from work and prayer. Not even for my wife. I thought my wife understood and appreciated my efforts. I was ignorantly mistaken. I was the major contributor to her emotional outbursts because I was super ignorant in the area of relationships and marriage. I was a pastor, God fearing and sincere in my relationship, but ignorant. My ignorance caused me to behave stupidly and therefore, drive my wife crazy. Out of my personal experience and many years of conducting marriage counseling, I can confidently say most wives are driven crazy by the ignorance and insensitivity of their husbands to their need for love and affection. Marriage is not all fun as many single people think. A dysfunctional marriage can be a source of emotional pain. This book will help you discover truths and information that will prepare you for an exciting life of marriage and bring a complete turnaround in your marriage.

Key themes

  • The foundations of a rooted identity
  • Honoring heritage without idolising it
  • Faith that speaks your language
  • Raising rooted children

About the author

Dr. Joseph Kansema

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